- It's hard, isn't it? Learning to live without them - Yes... It's hard to make new memories, I guess is not fair to them - I think it's not fair to not do, I mean, they want that right? They want to know that we face his absence with grace and dignity - Yeah, well the true is I'm not sure about all of that - You still here, right? Still finding you way? Is the best way to honor someone can ask